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writes:My boyfriend was 4 years my junior,I'm 25 this year and we've dated for 3 and half years till now. Back then i already know he's a bi-sexual before we date but i just wanna try it out so we ended up till now. He was never a romantic guy and seldom take initiative. He did confessed to me he surf gay porn site,Initially i thought i was cool with it but gradually i was irritated and told him if he wants to see a future in us he gotta quit and change, he promised to kick it off slowly and i know he was trying hard. I didn't want to keep asking him if he still like guys and surf gay porn cos I'm afraid it might backfire or irritate him. Now although he seems normal, I'm troubled by our sex life. He always reject when i wanna give him a blow job and he only stick missionary position for past 3 years,he never wanna change when i told him we can try something else.I mean how can any guy on earth reject??? all guys i know seems to urge for it isn't it? the excuse he gave me was hygiene. I really at loss to talk things out with him now regardless sex or life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2009): I'm a 20yr old guy and I like to watch gay porn too,and I'm adicted to it.I haven't been with a guy and I don't think I will.I have a lot of lustfull feelings to,but having a family in my future drives me to be strong.Maybe you should tell him that you think you guys should block the gay porn on your computer and his cell if it has internet.Also you should be the one to put the passwords in,if he knows it than whats the point.I think that he'll always have some feeling for guys,but it all depends if he'll give into thoughs thoughts that leads a disire,that leads to a fanisie,than the act in sex with a man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2008): i don't think your being fair ... I myself am bi-sexual and u can't tell a man let alone a person to change their sexual identity for the sake of a relationship.. it ain't fair in my eyes and a person's sexual orientation is a part of who they are and a part of their identity so like... If you can't accept his Bi-sexuality than leave.. i think its a "Take it, Or Leave It" situation.. you should accept him or let him go!PS: at least he hasn't cheated... he is faithful.. right? Him lookin' at porn is better than him cheating? I don't know if i am too late
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