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writes:CAN ANYONE TELL ME WHAT TO DO PLEASE.About four months ago,I met the most wounderfull girl ever,and after not beening in a relationship for four years it was realy great to finialy find happness after so long.I am 46 and she is 38 everything was going fine,untill about a week ago when she txt me and said she was sorry but at the moment she could not be in a relationship and that she did not love me,which did not make sence as the night before she had beening txting me teling me how much she loved me.I understand that she has beening through hell and back over the last month as she tried to take her own life and thank god we found her in time,she had to spend four days in the CCU as the doctors did not know if she had liver failure or not,I never cried so much as I did in those for days,if anything it brought us closer,they allowed me to sleep in the hospitial while she was in ccu and for that I ame so gratefull.I know that she needs space and I am willing to give her that,wee meet twice last week for a chat and she said she just wanted to be frends,and that she couldnt promise me anything.I am trying my best but I feel realy lost without her she means the world to me and I love her so much need her back my life is empty without her.D P O
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reader, lady grey +, writes (25 July 2010):
 This woman is obviously in a very bad place and as the above person said, her proirity has to be her mental health at the moment. Shes in a very fragile and probably confused state of mind. Its obvious you care for her and want to help, the best way to do that is to be there for her is she needs you but dont pressure her or expect too much from her in return. Try not to take her rejection personally, she's probably just trying to create a situation where she feels comfortable. By all means make sure she has the support she needs, let her know you care for her and will be there if she ever needs it but dont crowd her.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (25 July 2010):
 Maybe you need to respect her and back up, she clearly need to focus on her health only, mental and otherwise.
I'm sorry.
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