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writes: i met this guy a few weeks back he is a barman,he was very friendly to me and we started talking and both found out we were single so i plucked up courage and asked him out for a drink.he took my number and thought he wouldnt bother but he did.and we went out on a date.I found out he hadnt been split up from his girlfriend long she had cheated on him.The date went well and he txted me to say he felt very comfortable being in my company.He did say he wanted to meet again.anyway i saw him today where he works.i asked him did he want to meet up soon and he said he couldnt at the moment only they had changed his work rota.I'm not sure if he fancies me or not only the night we went out on the date he invited me back to his place we were a bit tiddlely and we laid on the bed watching tv.but he never came on to me.and i had to ask him for a good night kiss before i left.I dont want to look needy but i want to txt him but should i wait to see if he txts me.
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reader, Lemonpixie  +, writes (1 November 2006):
 It could be the case that he is nervous because he just came out of a relationship or something... but as rhythmandblues said...you've done enough. Maybe text him in a few days time and say i'm bored what are you up to.... if he doesnt respond or says hes busy and doesnt bother to make plans for later just drop it...if he calls you up thats fine but dont bother contacting him until he contacts you
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2006): It is human nature to want what you can't have, and that you are not sure if you can win it....I think so far you have done enough and it would be best if you waited for him to contact you. However, if he does not call in a couple of weeks, you can call him. I don't particularly like text messages, where is the relationship in that...it is better if he can hear your voice and get to see/hear your personality if you want him to like you....You don't have to play hard to get, if he asks you out on a date even if it is a spontaneous spur of the moment thing, go if you can.....have fun and best wishes!
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