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writes:My boyfriend says he wants to go further but I told him I wouldn't feel comftable. He said he could cum round after skool when my Mum woz out but now he keeps chickening out. I really don't know wot 2 do coz I think he's gone off me! Reply to this Question
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reader, fifi +, writes (30 January 2006):
Hi,This is straight forward. If you don't want to go further, then don't. No person should ever make you do something with your body that you don't want to do. If he keeps "chickening out" that suggests that he's not ready either, so that's even more reason not to do it. And if he's gone off you because you wouldn't put out when he wanted you to, then he's an immature idiot and that's your third reason not to do it! If you want a fourth, then doing it in your mum's house when she could walk in at any minute is not the greatest romantic setting.Get rid of this jerk, and don't do anything you're not happy with until you meet that special man.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (27 January 2006):
If your bf has gone 'off you' purely based on the fact that you are not ready to have sex then he is a JERK! You should never be with a guy who only wants you for that. Any half decent respecting guy who is worthwhile to be with, wouldnt leave you just because you wodulnt have sex or go further then you wished (so this could mean anything that your not comofrtable with) and he wouldnt pressure you into it.
You need to clearly state to him that you do not want to have sex and tell him if he still wants to do it and cant cope with not having sex then to get lost! You could find someone so much better who would stick by you and not pressure you.
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