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writes: Hi, I'm 14 years old going into 10th grade in High School. I have a boyfriend for just over 3 months and we are happy together. However, being summer, he's working at a sleep away camp and can't contact me much. He has sent a few messages via Face Book when he's able to get wifi. I miss him a lot but understand that he can't message me a lot because he's working and doesn't have access to wifi. I found myself flirting with other guys and I don't know why. I like the attention but sometimes the guys get carried away even though they know I have a boyfriend. What can I do to stop my flirting. I don't want to lead these guys on, I just want to have fun. I don't want to hurt my boyfriend either. Does anyone have any advice for me on what I could do?
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (15 August 2011):
Flirting is a choice. You decide how you want to act, then do it. You are in complete control of what you do and what you say, realize this, accept it and control yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2011): what do you mean how do you stop flirting? you just don't do it! Think of your boyfriend, and how you would feel if it was him flirting, if you put yourself in his shoes you're more likely to see how wrong it is :) xx
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