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writes:i was in a relationship for three years from 15 till 18 im turning 20 in a week and i cant stop thinking about my first love he was such a good boyfriend but i was the crazy the type and he was a home body so we split up i moved to gainesville for school, had a bf over their and he got a gf shortly after i got a bf but we remained friends, considering we were like bestfriends he was there for me when my mom got cancer and sat through every operation now im thinking about him im not trying to be a home wrecker i would never call and tell him how i feel even though he has called me and told me several times and its hard for him to even call to say hi cause his gf goes through his cell phone bill! i don;t know what to do, any advice?
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reader, Dragon ball  +, writes (15 October 2008):
 Hi,
I also think you should call him. Just talk to him and see how he feels about you. If he wants to talk to you even when he very well knows his girlfriend does not like him talking to you, that means probably he has strong feelings for you. But don't push him to do anything which he does not want to. And for goodness's sake, don't ever get in to a situation where he cheats his g/f and keep connections with you. If at all he wants to resume the relationship with you, he should first break up with the present girlfriend. Don't think of yourself as a home wrecker. You deserve to know who you want to be with for the rest of your life. Besides, you are still young and he is not married yet.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2008): I think you should call him. Don't start convo:s off like "I need you back" but let things happen naturally.If its meant to be he will realize just how much he loves and misses you!!!
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