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I don't want a girlfriend, but I want to have sex with a girl

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Question - (20 February 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 February 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am going to be 17 this October, and I have never had sex, I know some may say that its no problem, but it is for me, only I do not want a girlfriend, I don't need that bug, I just want to have sex with a girl, any idea on how to get it, with out hurting the girls feeling.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (20 February 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntProstitution is legal in Holland! Or you could actually have respect for your self and any girl you just want to have sex with.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009):

Yea if you are so luckily to find a girl that will have sex with you and not want love or a relationship in return I am sure you will can get it, but angel you might just wake up with another nasty bug, a virus that will eventually kill you, guys start masturbating long before us girls, so yea by age 17 I can understand that you are looking for something more than just Mrs. palm and her 5 daughters, rather ask men what the difference is in making yourself Cum and having sex…. There was a post here a while ago, where this young guy had sex with a 33year old woman, he was about your age if I can remember correctly and he said sex wasn’t what he thought it would be, its every young guys dream to have sex with an older woman but it still wasn’t what he thought it would be, think about it. You can meet that girl who will willingly have no strings attached sex but what could be the consequences of that? I also don’t know what the hang up is with having sex. Yea get a prostitute but that still leaves you with the possibility of contacting Aids or something… get a betty blow up doll, you can do with her as you please and once done deflate the little angel and put her away in the cupboard never to bug you again until you need her.

Don’t be stupid

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A female reader, Lizzabeth United Kingdom +, writes (20 February 2009):

I'm going to go against most of the people replying to this and say that although I don't agree in sleeping with anyone and everyone, there is nothing wrong with casual one of sex with somebody as long as all precautions are taken.

Sex is usually more of an emotional thing for girls, especially losing your virginity and so at your age I think you'd struggle to find a girl just looking for casual sex unless she's one of those 'easy' girls in which case I'd avoid, as you wont know where or who she's been with.

I suggest waiting until you do find someone you like, that way you can both decide what you want whether being a relationship, strings or no strings attached!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009):

Find a girl that feels the same way about that. Seems pretty obvious don't you think so?

How will you find that girl? That's the exact same idea as asking, "How will I find a girlfriend? How will I find someone to love me? How do I find a sauce I like? How do I find out which tie suits me best? How do I find out which sexual position gives me the best feeling?"

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