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I don't understand why our love is fading

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Question - (3 June 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 June 2012)
A female United States age 36-40, *ad eyed gurrl writes:

Ok so i've tried talking, writing a letter, and being understanding to my boyfriend to try and find out why our love is slowly fading... Still no response... What do i do... I love him but i think he has fell out of love... What now. What comes next??please help..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2012):

To be very honest, it doesn't sound like there's much you can do really. As stated in other comments, a relationship is a two way commitment, that can't be held together by one person alone. He really does owe you an explanation as to why he's drifting away from you, but if you never get one, then it just proves how little he really values/valued you and the relationship and on that note cut your losses and find someone worth your time.

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A female reader, FunkeyyMonkeyy United Kingdom +, writes (3 June 2012):

That is a shame to hear, and I'm sorry

But a relationship is a two way thing, if only one of you are making an effort you know it's time to move in as hard as it is

Try speaking to your boyfriend one more time tell how youfeel and if it don't change you're going to have to leave. Give it some time to change and if still nothing is different you know he's not the one for you

Good luck

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