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I don't know how to get over this other girl without pursuing something with her.

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Question - (1 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 December 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been with my girlfriend for two years now and i love her but lately i have been thinking about someone else. One night i got very drunk and tried to kiss this other girl, luckily we didn't but i cant stop thinking about her and i have told my girlfriend i have feelings for someone else but its nothing compared to how i feel for her. I know the other girl has had a crush on me in the past. I don't know if the feelings for the other girl are real or if its just a crush. I don't want to end my relationship with my girlfriend but I don't know how to get over this other girl without pursuing something with her. What should i do?

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A female reader, KANDIWRPR United States +, writes (2 December 2009):

KANDIWRPR agony auntim saying that you are just having a little crush

you should really steer away from the other girl

if you know that you love your gf

and want to be with her

do you really think that girl will make you happy

as to how your gf has?

did you think about your gf's feelings when you told her that you are interested in some1 else? if it was me i would be so devastated i would have left you if i was her

how to forget the other girl:

dont talk to her

everytime you are about to think about her

go talk to your girlfriend

think about what your gf has done for you

and haave fun with your gf

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