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writes:I've been dating my boyfriend for about seven months, it's all been good, he told me he didn't want me talking to my ex and when we got in a fight I called him and we talked.. 2 months of us going out and then I told my boyfriend. He was okay with it but now this happened a while ago he's been acting different since like 2 months or so he's been different and I don't know what to do. Yesterday we talked and we were completley honest about everthing but today he did the exact same thing, I told him I didn't like him doing.. I don't know what to do because he talks to his friends that are girls, I don't mind but he does it when we're taking and then he lies about it and does'nt want to tell me he's talking to them and I have told him a million times I don't like it but yet he still does it.. And it is really getting me tired! I don't know, it's like I don't feel the same way about him, like I used to...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): Uggh . I hatee that soo much . like k my ex boyfriend HATED me talking to guys like he got so mad and he would try and get me back by flirting with other girls when im around like i didnt flirt with the guys . they were just really close friends of mine. What i think you should do is confront him and it seems like you have done this already but let him know this is serious and you mean it tell him that if hes not okay with you talking to other boys then you dont think you should be dating . cause this could lead to an abusive relationship. And yes i know how it is when you really like a guy and you've been dating really long and it seems like you can't live without him but trust me , you can . You will find a better guy !
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reader, lostinparadise  +, writes (7 December 2008):
You need to make a decision about your future with this person. It is not right for you to keep him around if you know you do not feel the same way about him. Above all else be true to yourself. It will be better for both of you in the long run. If you are unsure about how you feel then take some time to figure it out and if at that point you still want out then leave. If you are going to make the decision to stick it out then make sure you are committed to doing that.
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