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*weetpie88
writes:hi guys i feel so depressed and i reali dont know wat to do. 2 days ago i was with my mum, my mum's friend and her brother. so my boyfriend called me and asked me who i was with i only mensioned my mum and her friend but i didnt say that my mum's friend brother was with us. so my boyfriend found out and told me why i didnt say he was with us. well i didnt wana tell him cuz my boyfriend is a jealousy type and he hates any guys around me. now he says that he feels unsecure. wat can i do to make him trust me. i really love him and dont wana lose him. thank you
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reader, sweetpie88 +, writes (25 July 2009):
sweetpie88 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks guys. no my boyfriend does not know the guy however i explained to him who he was. and i also told him that he just dropped us somewhere and that was all. i been trying to tell him and make him undertstand.
i wana thank you again and anything new, i will let u know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009): You've done nothing wrong though, he shouldn't be jealous! Have you explained that you weren't doing anything? Does your boyfriend know who thing man is? Just talk to him about it. I've been in a relationship where my boyfriend wouldn't let me anywhere near a guy, even ones double my age. Just think, is he worth it? If he is then just try to bare it, if not I guess you'll just have to deal with it or move on.
~Sam.
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (25 July 2009):
You can't "make him trust you" - this guy has serious issues. Guys like this will try to tell you that YOU have to EARN trust... not true...He, and all men, should allow you to be a responsible mature woman, and he should enjoy sharing the time you give him. I can't imagine how he'd react if you were at a party and he called and asked who was there... would you have to rattle off 30 or 40 names? So he called and there were 3 people and you listed 2... If he's insecure that's on him, not you - don't let any man make you resposnsible for HOW THEY FEEL... that's not your job, and more important, you do NOT have the power to change it! If you start TRYING to be in control of that you're life is going to be miserable. DO not fall into this trap...
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