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writes: I constantly doubt my boyfriend, and question him on absolutely everything, even though he's never done anything wrong. How can i change my ways? Reply to this Question
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reader, cam  +, writes (9 January 2007):
 i understand xactly how ur BF must feel, and its a bad feeling but i think you should just tell him what you'v just told us. believe me if he does get upset by you doubtin him then it would mean alot to him 2 hear that. in the longer term look at y it is that you doubt him? try and reassure urself that you dont have to. talk to him about it because the best way 2 solve relationship problems is to talk to the other person in tha relationship.
goodluck with everything
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reader, Anonymousloll +, writes (8 January 2007):
Hi there, I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and i love him very much however i am very paranoid, I have the same problem and whenever he goes out with friends Im always left worrying if he will kiss other girls even although he hates cheating as much as me and has always assured me he would never ever do that. I feel that theres so many people who cheat in relationships nowadays that people who are in a relationship, even a strong one, are led to doubt themselves and partner. I feel that thinking about how you would never do anything to hurt him helps, as if you both feel strongly for each other then you wouldnt hurt the other, you should learn to have some faith in yourself, maybe its your insecurities. For example if your opinion of yourself isnt very high you may feel that you expect this of your boyfriend and just think he'll hurt you. Try to think of good things he does instead of trying to find the bad.
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