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anonymous
writes:I cheated on my bf last night...it's a long distance relationship and I havn't seen him for months..things arn't so great bewteen us but that doens't excuse what I've done...I feel so guilty...whats worse is I think i've fallen for the guy i cheated with..though I have no idea what it is he wants. I'm so confused and dont know what to do :'( please help
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reader, agony_uncle_r +, writes (19 April 2007):
do the honest thing and tell your bf its over and why, if you have to make excuses as to why you cheated (the long term thing) but be honest and tell him you cheated. liers always get caught.
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reader, Card  +, writes (19 April 2007):
The same exact thing happened to me...but I'm the boyfriend who was cheated on. I think you need to tell your boyfriend immediately and end the relationship. You have already been selfish, so don't be more selfish and hide this information from him. I found out a couple of months after from a friend. And I confronted her, and she denied it until she broke down and admitted "some" things. Don't be evil like that. Tell your man NOW and break off the relationship. If you genuinely think you can't bare to tell him, then break it off and never get back with him unless you do tell him your secret hookups. Good luck. Explain to him you lost interest, and that is why you did it. With time, that will make sense to him even if he is initally hurt. I had to deal with my entire mess on my own and that is what made me feel better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2007): talk to this guy youve had a one night stand with what does he want and feel? dont rush into things think about what your doing.
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