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writes:Hello, I am currently very interested in a girl I met in a class about a week ago, and I am left wondering what my next move should be. I am 21 years old, she is 20. So my main question is: "Is this girl interested in me, and if she is, what should my next move be?"What follows is a lengthy description, but I feel that if I do not disclose all the details, an important part of the picture would be left out. I sat with her during class this wednesday for the first time, talked with her for quite a bit, and ended up driving her home. Upon exiting the vehicle, I asked if she wanted to go to the football game this weekend and she said sure, for me to give me her phone number. So I did, and she dialed it so I could have hers. 2 days later it is Friday, so I call her, she doesn't answer so I leave a message asking when we should meet up for the game. About 2 hours pass and she sends me a text saying the following: "Hey ____! I just got your voicemail and I have some things to do in the morning, so is it ok if I give you a call when I'm heading to the stadium and we can meet up?" I send her a message back saying: Sure! Ill see you tomorrow then, and she replies Ok. Sounds good. So, gameday, today, comes around and upon my entrance to the stadium I realize that there is LIMITED SERVICE available there. So I cannot call or receive calls and sometimes text messages go through. So I text her that I saved her a seat for her and her friends. The whole game goes by and I don't hear anything from her. Upon walking back a text message pops in my phone from saying: " Ok I'm win my friends night. I call you" Which should've arrived about 30 minutes before the game started, according to the text. So, this text leaves me really perplexed because I cannot make out what she meant. And now I don't know whether she did call me or not since service was such crap.Which brings me to the moment right now. There is a party happening at my house tonight, and I called her an hour after the game ended, she didn't answer, and I left a voice message saying I had no idea there would be so much interference, and that there is a party tonight at my place which she is welcome to drop by. It is 9:24 and she still doesn't respond, so I am left wondering, do I try to plug the party again through a text message later in the evening? Do I just wait to call her until after the party? Do I wait until I see her in class?Which again brings me to the main question "Is this girl interested in me, and if she is, what should my next move be?"Thank you for putting up with this gigantic description, it really means a lot to me.
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reader, Roboaxe +, writes (21 January 2015):
Roboaxe is verified as being by the original poster of the question I didn't text her or call her, and it turns out she wasn't interested. Thanks for the feedback man!
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reader, sickofgirls4real  +, writes (6 September 2009):
Do NOT text her and plug the party again. Wait till you see her again, but brush her off like f*** it, you had your chance. I don't know how you are as a person, but personally when a girl blows me off like that, ignoring them without being rude or negative about it usually gets me back through the door.. or so to speak. And if it doesn't, at least you didn't waste your time looking desperate for some girl who's not really interested anyways.
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