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writes: Hi, I really need help. I have been in a relationship for 6 months and me and my partner are engaged. Although I love him dearly, he can't stop moaning at me. He moans at me for any little thing, like I'm not allowed out without him, I'm not allowed to use my phone when he is around or even go on the computer! I can't take it no more. I know he has done a lot for me and I don't want to lose him but I don't know what to do. Please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2006): He is a control freak, he has issues with trust and self esteem... these problems do not go away without long term counsiling. If you love each other seek cousiling, if he doesnt agree to counsiling, you may want to consider pulling out of the relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2005): This is only my opinion, and I hope I'm wrong, but maybe this is his cowardly way of getting out of the engagement. Sounds like he is being completely unreasonable and why would he do that unless he wants out? Maybe he's too cowardly to talk to you about it. This way you get fed up, you end it and he doesn't have to be the bad guy.I suggest having a heart to heart about the whole thing. Approach the subject head on. Don't let anyone make your life a misery.
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