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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:How do I get over this lad? I was dating this lad, after much persuasion from him, his friends and my friends. At first, I was reluctant 2 get involved because I'm often afraid of getting hurt and he did have a bit of a 'bad boy' reputation. I turned him down on numerous occasions and explained my fear of getting hurt, instead of being sympathetic, and reassuring he argued me down. Unsurprisingly, romance on his half cooled down, however, I began 2 see him in a different light, I began 2 fall for him. After a few weeks of within each others company and a night at the pub I retired too his, where we had sex. Unfortunately, again things didn't seem too work out for much longer, I was often busy and couldn't meet up as much as he liked, our relationship was patchy and we drifted in and out of periods of conversation. Now, it has come to a point where we barely ever see each other, I've recently discovered he has been sentenced a short period in prison. As much, as this should put me off, I can't stop thinking about him. I know I am only young and it's probaly just a phase, but I would like advise on what too do. I do feel a semse of love for him. Do I need to see this as my escape and leave now? am i being stuped? or should I talk too this boy when I next have the chance?Please give me some advise =[ ????
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): true luv lives on forever...it is unconditional...if u feel that u truely lov him then wait for him..but after reading the whole thing i can make out its not true luv..its ifatuatio..no offence...my advice 2 u is to get over him...believe me this guy wil spoil his and ur life too..u can sumthing else..u can tel him to change his ways...but believe me TIME HEALS AL WOUNDS :) best of luck
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