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51-59,
*ichy
writes:ok, here is the scenerio:I cheated on my ex husband 8 years ago for a year, I told him and we divorced with no children. I cannot seem to seperate from him, we have a special loyal relationship. He has not been able to be in a stable relationship since we divorced. He lives with me due to hardships and I experience drama with him and his present girlfriend. She is very good to him but he is not ready for a relationship. I am always there for him whenever he needs me. I have a boyfriend with whom I am very much in love with but I did meet someone else and it didnt work out. I am not happy and just want to go on with my life but Ican't seem to do this because I feel compelled to help my ex. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2007): Wait a minute, Michy, you hgave posted twice - earlier as the girlfriend of the guy living with his ex who cheated, and now as the ex who did the cheating.Who are you??
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reader, flower girl +, writes (29 June 2007):
 It's going to be impossible for you to move on from this all of the time your ex husband is still living with you and the same for him.
Is there not any family or friends that he could stay with?
You could still be there for him but at least then you would not be in each others pockets and you could both start to move on with your lives.
Take care.xx.
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