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writes:I've never had a bf and I am bad at reading signs of interest from a guy (yes, I know I am almost 30 and still boyfriendless). A guy and I were in a conversation, and because I liked him, I started laughing randomly mid-conversation. There was nothing funny that was said, I just started laughing because it's what I do when I like a guy. Then as soon as I started laughing, the guy started laughing with me. I didn't know why he was laughing because nothing said was funny. We laughed together and it distracted him from what he was doing. And then when our conversation ended, he avoided eye contact with me and I saw that he looked at the ground and sort of had a smile on his face (it was like I made his day or something). Was he interested? I am thinking maybe I need to start making a move on a guy so that I am not forever alone anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2024): Sounds to me like there was a mutual attraction as laughing together is a bit flirty sometimes. Could be he's a bit shy and didn't quite know what to do.
There's all sorts on the Internet about signs a guy is interested, although every guy is different. Maybe you could read some of it and then learn the rest from experience.
Hope you find happiness.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (20 February 2024):
 Do you have hobbies? Do you do sports? Participate in religion?
If you can yes to one or more of these, then that is a good place to MEET someone that you might have a future with. Someone you SHARE something GOOD in common with.
Let me give you an example. You like hiking. So find a local hiking group and go hiking. You might meet people who are there for the same reason as you (to meet someone special) OR to make friends, and through friends you might meet someone who could be a good fit. Doesn't mean you should PRESUME that ANY guy in the hiking group is there to find a partner but it's a good start to find people with whom you SHARE something already.
Or you go to church but do not participate in social events there, maybe try some of the social events.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (20 February 2024):
 * meant to say best medicine, not bed medicine *
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reader, kenny +, writes (20 February 2024):
They do say that laughter is the bed medicine, also laugh or smile and the world does it with you.
There is no rush to meet anyone, go along the lines of you would like to meet someone but you don't need to meet someone.
I think the most important thing before you enter the dating world is learning the art of self love, learning to love yourself really is the greatest love of all as by doing this you will attract to yourself a partner on the same vibrational frequency as you are.
Yes he might well of been interested so why not spark up a conversation with him, take it one step at a time and when your ready see if he wants to grab a coffee or something.
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