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writes:i have a mental block every time I try to have sex with my partner, I cannot achieve an orgasm and we would love a baby so when the time of the month is right i just cant cum, the doctor gave me Viagra but no good,please advise as we are desperate, this problem has been going on for a long time, we had a child 3 years ago and would love another, I can cum no problem by hand, so what else can we do, please help, thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): Quiet Echo is 100% on the money
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (20 July 2010):
 Fairly common problem for people who are too used to masturbating. You'll just have to keep trying with your current partner.
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reader, johannabanana +, writes (20 July 2010):
 This may sound gross but you could always do it another way if it is such a problem... And yes by that I mean masturbating and cumming in a cup. Just saying. It would work if you need it to happen.
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reader, TheWolf  +, writes (20 July 2010):
 When you masturbated and came , what was in your mind ???The mind can overpower our physical actions in a negative or positive way. If your unsure of what that was . I would suggest private exploration with porn to find out what really floats your boat . lol , When you find this and start to have sexual intercourse with your partner try to take yourself to that place , close your eyes and imagine your favorite scene , in a movie your wildest fantasy . You could even possibly , depending how open minded your wife is , include her in this by watching porn , talking about your fantasys , and i personally find it a huge turn on to talk about her fantasys , role play and try to live out those fantasys at least in yor minds . And just a note from personal experiences , most fantasies are better left as such never to be fulfilled , lol , it only raises the bar higher lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): It sounds like a mental block to me. Consider seeking counseling to help with this situation, whether it be a lack of sexual confidence or fear of having more children.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (20 July 2010):
 The most obvious would be that deep down you either don't want a baby or are scared. How long has this been going on? I mean that would seem to be the most plausible answer. If you have no trouble masturbating, maybe you've gotten used to the tight grip of your hand.
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