A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello,I met a guy online. We communicated via email for about two weeks, really nice and interesting and long messages. We went on a first date yesterday evening. He commuted by train 3 hours here and back to see me. We talked for 4.5 hours, and he left because I suggested he should since it is late. Upon leaving, he embraced me, and said we should hang out again, and that he will call or text me. Well, here I probably made a mistake. I had a nice evening, and since this weekend I don't have much going on, I decided to take the initiative, and I sent him a message asking if he wants to do something this weekend. No response, and it's been 2 hours....I screwed up didn't I? I expressed in the previous messages that he has so self-esteem/self-worth issues, so I figured that maybe a little push is not bad. He did initiate the first date. Thoughts?-confused female
View related questions:
text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2012): He replied within 2 hours. Second date lined up. :-D
Thanks guys!
A
reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2012): That was very nice of you to do! I reckon someone had to ask . So don't sweat it if he doesn't reply. Move on there are other guys wanting to be asked out -.-
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2012): Guys wont hesitate if interested. You dont have to read between the lines. If he doesnt get back to you soon then he's not as keen as you are. You wont have screwed up just by that. He initiated the first and if he was/is interested, then he will initiate the next.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2012): No you didn't screw up. Chill out and wait to see what happens.
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2012): I wouldn't have mentioned self esteem issues and needing a push myself. But there was nothing wrong in suggesting meeting up again. It has only been a short while ago so don't worry yet. If you do not hear in a day or so assume he's not keen to meet again. A natural response to meeting up with someone is generally 'we must do this again'- you can not always read it as a true statement.
...............................
|
