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I am very insecured and am considering leaving him. What can I do to stop this mentality?

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Question - (19 April 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 April 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi I'm confused.

I'm 16 and have a 16 year old bf. We have been together for 4 months now and I really like him, but I am a really insecure, paranoid and jealous person! and I hate it.

If one of my (attractive) friends and me go up 2 him and talk 2 him i get jealous if he so much as looks at her for a few seconds! I automatically think he fancies her :( I don't like it when he talks to my friends or any other girl thats attractive. I wish i wasnt like this! im getting quite down about it :( I haven't told him i feel like this and not going to.

What shall i do and how do i get rid of this jealousy thats going 2 ruin our relationship if i dont do something about it because I'm already thinking 'shall i just dump him cos i cant handle the jealousy'!

Please help me. i wish i wasnt like this. (i trust him not 2 cheat on me but i think its not his fault if he falls for someone else, that's what im worrying about).

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A female reader, Scene Kid United Kingdom +, writes (20 April 2007):

Scene Kid agony auntHey! Im in the same posistion as you at the moment! If you really like him then please keep going out with him. You have to think to yourself that he is going out with you because he wants to be with you. Im not sure you should tell him, as when i told my boyfriend he said it was annoying him as he wants friends that are girls aswell. Give me some feedback. Luv Scene Kid x

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