I am not sure if I’m being paranoid or if she is starting to dislike me for some reason.

A female age 30-35, *wl26 writes:

I am currently at university, next year I am living with a girl lets call her Katie. Well me and Katie used to get on really well and would hang out together most of the time we even went to dance class together. However recently she has been giving me these really lame excuses when I ask to meet up with her. I usually would ignore this, but it's been on more than a month, all of these excuses have been one after another. I didn't see her for over a month, yet she still has time to meet up with the other girls that were living with next year. When I did finally get to see Katie it was to my coat off her which she had for two months because she didn’t ‘have time’ to see me to give it me back. This time she only spoke to me briefly, I asked her if we were going to meet up before the Easter holiday, she told me "I hope so" and that "she has been feeling really bad" for not seeing me and letting me down. But she never gave me a reason and we never did meet up in the end. I have stopped making the effort to get in contact with her and like I thought she hasn’t bothered to get in touch with me, not a one text, phone call or facebook message. I would usually keep it like this and not make an effort if she is not, but the fact that we will be living together next year changes everything.

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A female reader, lovely_minx  +, writes (2 April 2012):

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