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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: i met this boy when i went for hajj. our families became friends and then we stayed in touch. we live in different cities but text/chat on msn/email each other everyday. we admitted that we loved each other last week. my question is are we as muslims doing something wrong? is it against islam to have an online relationship. keep in mind that we have never been alone in the same room together so never touched each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): Hi Hunny
Ive read a little hunny and as the last post said if you are inlove then it is not a sin, As I no very little hunny I would suggest to go by your parents rule and wait untill you are of age and then maybe approval can be agreed, Much luck to you sweetpea WITH LOVE AND HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Jargenhunter +, writes (25 February 2008):
I challenge you to find a Quranic verse that says relationships are forbidden. The Prophet (pbuh) loved his wives, and if you seriously love this boy than you are not a sinner. Just remember, love or no love, there is no excuse for Zina and you should maintain your modesty (don't be explicit on webcam, etc). The question now is whether your culture and family would approve of this relationship. It may be best for you to wait until you are at least 18 before you have serious thoughts about this relationship, otherwise if your parents find out and do not agree you could be in a world of hurting. Good luck.
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