A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Guys. I have an issue . I have been dating a guy online now for sometime like 3 years . he is open to me about his ex and showed pictures and told me stories like how his ex cheated on him. I understand and appreciate that he is trying to be open with me and be honest with me since LDR requires a lot of trust and openness . I on the other hand have never dated anyone before so this is my first time dating him and he has a lot of exes ...he daed. 28 girls before but he did share with me why the relationship ended . he told me he wants me to know that he is being honest and not hiding anything from me . However I can't help but compare myself to them . especially since he is so experience and its my first time . I do feel the pinch somehow . I don't know what to do with these jealous feelings I have or like feelings where by I knew he loved so many women in the past . it makes me feel uncomfortable somehow .
View related questions:
his ex, jealous Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Dionee'  +, writes (6 May 2016):
 3 years is a long time to be with somebody. Jealousy is OK as long as it isn't consuming your life and your time, in which case, that would be a problem. I will say though that more information would be nice such as whether thou actually know each other in person or not . . . by the way, just because he was with so many woman in the last, does not mean that he loved them all.
A
female
reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 March 2016):
 Have you actually met this man in person or are you just having a relationship with your computer? If you haven't actually met him in three years, then my suggestion is to go out on a date with someone who you can have conversation with face to face. This relationship doesn't sound to healthy.
Yes its true we can all get a little jealous and that is okay, but are you sure you are not just jealous that these girls have been with this guy and you have not really progressed in three years?
...............................
|
