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51-59,
anonymous
writes:My girlfriend never tells me when she goes out with some friends. for her birthday she went out and no one knew where she was and i was calling her like crazy. the other night she went to a football game and i had asked her if she had any plan and although she knew about the game did't tell me. again i was calling and no answer. i met her at the game and she ignored me. i offered a ride she said i was drunk and opted to go with some friend. i was not drunk and i felt hurt. why is this so? then she would do like noting was wrong what can you advice?
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reader, spartautopio  +, writes (17 July 2008):
Dude, seriously get out of that! I've totally been there and its not worth it. See how you are starting to realize how she is, think about how she was to you before. It hurts I know and I'm sorry the best thing to do is find someone who actually wants to be with you. Girls like that just use you for whatever reasons the deem necessary, and it is so messed up but that is how they are. She isn't even worth your time. Does it anger you at all how she treats you? Why feel like that? Why bother putting up with her? Bro get out of that, she sounds like bad news seriously! I know exactly what you are going through trust me on this one! There is someone out there way better for you, don't settle for someone that stomps all over your heart like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): You may be getting taken for granted, but i would suggest you do not chase her and phone her, she loves it ! and the more you do it the further she will run. To bring her back leave her alone and she will wonder what has gone wrong, suddenly all this attention will vanish and she as most do will start to feel hungry for your attention , and yes she might vanish too but thats the risk you take. Personally i would tell her to x off!and get a girl that loves to hear your voice on the end of the phone and do things together. I would take the risk because you in my eyes have nothing at all to loose.
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