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female
age
30-35,
*dangconfused
writes:Hi. I am a 17 y.o Female and i have been with my boyfriend for just on a year now. I do love him, and, i think he loves me .. but;I have decided to follow on a career in the armed forces. this means i will be away alot for the next year or so. I asked him if he would stay with me while i am gone. He ummed and arred. then he told me he wasnt going to put his life on hold for me (?)The situation is; i will return home to see him every 3months for 2weeks. Now he says he will stay with me, i just dont believe it! how do i find out for sure and if i still dont know.. how do i break it off with him? he can be very violent when he is mad.. i dont want to make him mad. i just dont want to keep this going if its going to end in a few months anyway.please help.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (17 June 2007):
 I think that you going in the armed forces is a good thing seen as you say that he gets violent when made angry.
Do you really want to be with someone that you fear you will spend all of your time not saying what you think for fear of making him angry, you are young and this is a fantastic career opportunity for you so i would leave him and get on with your life.
Take care.xx.
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reader, hoot  +, writes (17 June 2007):
I am in a similar position.
I decided however to let go of her.. even though I love her more than myself. Its her life and I have no right to hold her back from trudging on... It would be selfish of me.. when the chances of coming back alive are everything but good.
read;
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-cannot-leave-the-military-its-the-way.html
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