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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey, i really like this boy, he's 17 but im only 14, he's called me cute and has been flirting alot, and i would like to go out with him but im not sure what to do, or if he even likes me in that way. please help! thanx!!
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (9 October 2007):
A good 17 year old boy wouldn't date a 14 year old girl. A 14 year old girl should not date a 17 year old guy. This is a reciepe for trouble.
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female
reader, Charmayne  +, writes (8 October 2007):
Hi there~
Anon., you are 14 and tho 3 years difference doesn't seem much, trust me it is when your a developing teen (including him!).
Emotionally and intellectually you are seeing the world a lot differently to this guy.
Enjoy his admiration, but put the brakes on the dating.
Seriously, at least find out if he is interested in you as a person. Does he want to find a friend in you? Can you rely on him when you are having a difficult time? Does he value you as a person? Does he encourage you to believe in yourself? Does he respect what is important to you at this time in life?
hope this helps,
talk anytime,
char
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