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I always initiate sex and now he smells funny...could he be cheating?

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Question - (27 February 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 March 2006)
A female , *kinnygrl writes:

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. At the beginning of our relationship I used to have to beg him for sex and he still would not give it to me. He later said he just liked to look at porn a lot that is why he wouldn't have sex with me. Slowly, he began to give in and now whereas, I don't have to beg him, he still doesn't show an interest in sex with me and the only way we have sex is if i initiate it, and even then he stops after a little while. The other day I was going to go down on him and I smelled a funny stench on his dick, but only under the foreskin, I beleive it was smegma, but he usually has really good hygeine and this has never happened before. Does this mean he's cheating?

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (2 March 2006):

willywombat agony auntHow disgusting. He is probably getting a bit lax on the hygiene cos you ahve been together a while and people stop making quite so much of an effort.....

That said, tell the lazy slob to get washing....

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A female reader, mystify +, writes (1 March 2006):

mystify agony auntmaybe its because of his smell that he dosent wanna get down with you, (he probably thinks too much of you to share this with you!) i once had a female version of his prob and i would noway let my bloke near me...it embaressing!

still mention it to him tell him you'd rather it was a bit of poor health or hygine than him cheating he should "come clean " soon enough

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2006):

different foods ovtc and street drugs can def. create a different ph and smell and your mans tool. but you can bet your sweet vulva hes been dippin somewhere.

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A female reader, smeedle United Kingdom +, writes (27 February 2006):

smeedle agony auntHe aint cheating but he does have smegma and I bet you have now gone off cheese!!

Your relationship sounds a bit stale in the bedroom department and maybe you should suggest spicing it up, tell him to leave the porn alone you are the real thing and are hot for him, if this does not do the trick then kick him out of bed honey and move a new man in!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2006):

That's likely just what it was, dear. It doesn't always have the nicest odor but Smegma is clean, not dirty, and is beneficial and necessary. It acts as a natural moisturizer and its anti bacterial properties keep the male penis, healthy and very clean. He probably just missed a bit when he was washing. Don't worry about it.

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