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*ink kitty
writes:Ok this question is aimed mostly at the men. I want to know what is the right way to approach a guy about being safe with sex. I like to wait a few months before getting into sex and my first bf and were virgins so there was not a whole lot of talk about sex history but with the next guy I refuse to do it unless I know for sure that it is safe. And a guy telling me that he is clean is not good enough, i would need proof, but how would i go about all this in a snsitive manner. I would not want to upset the guy but I also don't want to be kicking myself in the butt if I were to contract something. Sorry for the long post but this wuestions has been bugging me for a long time. Reply to this Question
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reader, pink kitty +, writes (5 February 2008):
pink kitty is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you so much mandy that link was helpful. thanks as well Annalisa but I think that talking about sex comes before having sex and I'm not the person to just hop in bed right away.I guess I also want to know what kind response anyone would have to their partner asking about their sexual history and also how they would feel if their partner asked them to get tested??
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): Hi Hunny
I aint no man but Ive found you a helpfull link that may ease your worries love.
http://www.condomman.com/articles/relationships/how-to-discuss-intimacy-and-safe-sex-in-a-relationship/
Hope this helps hunny TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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