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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Hi,I am 26, living a metro city in India. I am well qualified and have good experience in my filed of work. I am working in a multi national company, have a stable job and earning well. I have my flat which I took on loan and living with my parents. I also have grandfather's property in my city which needs attention. I am financially and mentally comfortable to get married. I had a date with a girl few weeks back, she is like the one I was looking for. We talked few times on phone and chat after the date. We are only concerned about her career. We both work in a similar industry but not exactly same kind of job. She is located in a different metro city in India and for her type of job she has very less scope in my city. If she has to relocate to my city, she has to change her job profile. She is positive about her current job. She is ambitious looking for bigger opportunities. She is very mature, hardworking, career oriented yet a very good human being. I know that she needs support in her career now instead of asking her to shift a job; but sooner or later she has to take the decision. I let her know about what kind of companies and job available in my city and what contracts I have in the industry. By any chance I don't want to lose her, but I don't know what needs to be done to support her in career. What I should do to support her? Thanks for spending your precious time to read my problem. Please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2009): Hmm...she has to be open-minded on this if she wants to be with you. Being distant to one another can hurt a relationship. As long as you two are communicating and meeting up, then both of you should be good. Most importantly, loving one another.
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