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writes:I let him know my feelings 4 him, and he didn't feel the same, Now what can I do to have him as my friend?The guy I have feelings for kinda let me down easy very politely.But I don't want lose him , and would like to be his friend and back off. What can I do to let him know that I don't want to loose contact with him and go on with my life? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): Just keep being nice to him when you run into him. Be warm and friendly. That's all you can do. If what you were thinking of doing is calling him and telling him that you would like to be friends, I wouldn't do that. For now just back off but keep being very sweet to him when he is around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): It will take time, but now that you know how he feels, you'll need to adjust for the reality. It will take time. Letting him know you still enjoy his company as a friend and that you accept his position should let him know that you both can continue the friendship.
Just continue to be yourself, know who you are, what your needs are and how to ask for them and eventually, you will find someone who feels the same way you do.
Take care!
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