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reader, Ali Raza  +, writes (4 May 2009):
Dear friend knowing about someone that loves you or not it depends on someones nature. Some people show their love by caring so much and some don't have the courage to show the love because they are also wondering if the opposite side loves them too so that's why they are afraid of losing him/her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2009): hello :)
i love this person alright?
and its not like when you date him for a couple of days and you call it love. i really love him. and it's so obvious and he says he loves me too but why. i am such a horrible person. i've madde many mistakes and i face the consequences. i have this disease and i told him about it when we were in our 5th month. i know, i'm so stupid for not telling him earlier. but he had no reaction. he said nothing and he also said that sex is not necessary. i believe him. but i dont get why he didnt say bye to me. does that mean he loves me? i have let him down so many times and still he goes on everyday with me. he's so confusing and i feel so bad for telling him bye so many times but he still deals with. and sometimes, i can be such a bitch and he calms me down... WHY! i dont get it. but i DO love him; it's just that my mom and dad don't understand that. he's 4 years older than me but age doesnt matter right? i love you *****! bye bye.. thank you for your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009): I know this boy. I love him, but I don't know if he feels the same about me. I sit next to him in some lessons at school, and he's always really nice. I sometimes catch him looking at me across the room, and when I'm next to him I sometimes turn around and find him staring at me, an unfathomable look in his eyes. I feel a connection of some sort, but I'm too shy to tell him. Today, I was sitting with him in maths, secretly eavesdropping as he talked to the girl behind him. She asked, 'who do you fancy?' I heard my name being mentioned and looked round at him. He immediately stated in front of me that he loved one of my friends. I don't know whether he loves me or her. Please help.
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reader, bright_eyes  +, writes (31 January 2009):
I really like this boy, we would talk all the time last year, but now he ignores me!I haven't tried talking to him, I get butterflies when he even looks at me, let alone talks to me!I know I should move on, but I REALLY like him, we seem so perfect together!What can I do???
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reader, crystal clear xx  +, writes (11 July 2008):
Love can be so tricky at times is it any wonder it blinds our judgement? The truth is only you know the answer to this question, its easy for other people to judge but only you know how you really feel deep down. Some people find it hard to show their true feelings and others find it even harder to talk about them. I strongly believe that love is the way a person treats you, the way they make you feel, the special connection you share that other people just dont understand. If this person makes you feel special, and makes you feel loved then what else matters? You just need to be sure that you dont confuse this type of love with the type that friends share. Sit down and openly talk to this person, tell them how you feel and find out do they feel the same way. . . .
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): i had a classmate.some times he show that he is really intrusted in me but sometimes he shows that he really hates me.
i am 13 years & i like him from last six years.
but i don't know that he likes me or not.
from last 1 year i was trying to realize him that i need you.sometimes he seemed very happy but sometimes angry.
but now he has left the school.
now what should i do.i don't want to forget him atall but everone says i should move on.
what should i do,i really love him,but i don't know that he loves me or hates me.
what should do now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): how can i deal with my BF while he is in love with me and his X-GF at the same time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): Tell him how you feel and what you are thinking. Maybe he has reservations about your faithfulness to him and thinks you are cheating on him when you both are apart, or maybe he has someone else maybe another man if that's the case then it's time to move on. You need to know where the relationship is going and if it's worth sticking around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008): ask yourself if you truly do love him? and that he feels the same for you. If you know that you do love him than you will understand why these things are happening in your relationship between you and him. Its not easy getting the "Spark" back but its for sure that you cant force him into loving you, it just takes time maybe you never know that one day he might trully love you back, and thats when you know that there really is a spark in your relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): well i know what u mean
just tell him how u fell
and tell him that u love himvery much
mabe he loves a other girl
ask him!!!
but always be there for him
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): i personally think that if the guy really loves u, he will express it. it may be as simple as a phone call or he may do sweet things for u like buy u gifts or send u flowers. he doesn't have to do those things, but i think if he is genuine about his feelings u will know it. if he doesn't seem to care about what is going on with you or to give u attention and or affection but is too wrapped up in his own world....move on hun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): well try to work out what the *spark* that you had before in the relasionship was and then try to recreate that *spark*if this fails try to create a new *spark* and if the relationship is not just about sex you will find the *spark*
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2008): Move on. I don;t think he is the one.
Loves unconditional. If he can't even say tha how can you expect anything else?
Think about it
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reader, mercy  +, writes (11 February 2008):
i fell in love with a man and i told him how i felt about him but he dident tell me that he loves me all he shows me that he respect me and alot of body languge and that he cares so i dont know if he loves me
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reader, mercy +, writes (11 February 2008):
I fell in love with a man and I told him how I felt about him but he didn't tell me that he loves me all he shows me that he respect me and alot of body languge and that he cares so i dont know if he loves me
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2007): well i think that you should confront him on it and tell him what you think i did this with my boyfriend and we are now closer than ever we talk alot more and when he isnt with me he always rings me
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007): my look on this chick you know him better than i do but id do something diffrent dress up dance in to the room create excitement buy some football tickets take him to watch footie all the men things buy him something etc but if you love him go for it think about what he likes its not the big things that matter it the small things think about the time you have spend with hm that was great ask your self what he likes about you and take it fom theregood luck mj
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007): A person eyes says a lot if one is paying attention. Love doesn't have to be expressed through words but can be expressed through body language. You know it's love when you feel a connection inside you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007): That person would act in a strange shy way around, or if that person is soo couragous that say person would flirt and run, if you stay near that person and talk to him/her and get to know that person you would have a great chance of finding their feelings about you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2007): Just don't care..
when you get him.. show you don't really care what they do.. when they relised you don't care and is free willing, they become weak and try to be possessed...
the more they want you... the more they worry..
love is a heavenly word for dreamers with habit...
if your strong, the world works around you, instead of u being a spectator.. so you'll always get what you want..
if you want it badly enough...
but do you have the heart for it...?
I'm not asking to be cruel..
just lean back and play as if you don't care...
Then the changes start to happen..
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2007): it sounds like you might argue alot if thats why he dosent like you as a couple ! maybe you should step back abit dont spend so much time being a couple more like friends, not saying finish it just enjoy the time you have together and also....... maybe you should spend less time together if he misses you (which i think he probably does) hell come back but if not then onestly ...(even thou uv probably herd it b4) ...if he dnt miss you show him u dnt miss him n hes not worth it !! hope it helps iv needed this advise in the passed and never got it in time !! good luck ! XxX
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2007): You should know that when you love a person, you have to learn to let go of that person. See when you love a person you want to make them happy, love is sacrificing your needs to pleasure your lover's needs.
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reader, weesue +, writes (12 February 2007):
 True love has no fear,for if he really loved you he would be near.
And if he does not miss you when your not around.
Forget him honestly for his love cannot be found.
So cheer up wee sweetie,don,t let him take the mick.
Let the guy go his hearts made of brick.
Susan D
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2007): Love is without a doubt expressed in the eyes. The eyes never lie. The words coming out can be something very different from what the eyes are saying. Trust me on this one...I know.I personally have had a growing attraction for someone that I amsometimes in the same office with. When we look at each other it is different now then when it was in the beginning.We can finish each others sentences and gaze deeply into each others eyes and just communicate that way.The communication through the eyes says love.This has been going on for awhile and I believe that this is the beginning of true love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2006): your boyfriend obviously doesnt care about the relationship ye have.. if he did hed be all I LOVE US SOO MUCH!! if hes not thinkin about you as much when youre apart that means hes thinking about that cute little skirt who just walked down the street.. your boyfriend is a dirt box.. youre beter than that get rid of him and find someone who loves you and "ye"
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2006): I have been in many relationships, and a lot of the time my guys would say they love me, but there was always abuse and everything always needing to be there way. If someone truthfully loves someone than they would do anything in there power to protect them from any kind of abuse.So just because someone says they love u does not always mean they do. Thats where you have to be the bigger person and put a stop to that kind of LOVE!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2006): i have a boyfriend but he is kind of mean with me sometimes and he is always screeaming i someyimes dont know what is better to leave him or no. ifound some pictures he had of his ex and i dont know if they mean something to him
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A reader, Kerry Green, writes (30 January 2005): I am 45 years old and have had my share of relationships since my marriage broke down. I have had a man that has said he loved me and said it many times a day but they were just words.Now I have a man that says I will never hear the word. I have pondered over this and I have come to the conclusion that the one that said he loved me never did anything to make me feel loved. The old saying is "words come easy". The man that says he will never say it, makes me feel loved. So when it is all said and done. What are those 3 words. They are exactly that 3 words, But the person that shows effection, treats you in a caring way, does things for you, respects you and all those things that make you feel loved. They don't have to say it they just show it. Think about your boyfriend and how he is with you and you will know the answer to your question.
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