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writes:how do i deal with rejection.the story is i liked this guy doing the sport as me and then one he rejected he didn,t seen with me in the nighclub,and rotten to me.actual the guy is jerk,but he found him self gilfreind a girl who has learn for her self what he really liked. i though he was nice guy now i see him different light i find him intimating,smog and cold.nad hes make me so mad .hes all about this new girl.i can,t go backto sport because he so full of himself to point of irration.i can,t bare him any BUT i don,t want him to get the better of me even he he hurted my feelings and said i wasn,t good to be asked out by the likes of him.hes cute and charming,he little too skillful in that depatment.but i am so really hurt and mad .that he traeted this new girl so much better ,i don,t know what she has that i don,t .how do go back to sport where very guy who hurted trains there and brings his gilfreind and she show off to every whild there.she has no idea what she is in for,well i hope she sees him for who he really is and hurt his feeling.as they pass it long.those who give out should get back 3 times fold.he hurted and i liked him.now the next time he likes a gilr she should rejected him and hurt his feelings.so he know what its feels to have you heart rip apart in second falt.what comes around goes round.final get his comming uping he couldn,t happen to nicer guy to be dumped in full public view for all to see.i like guys but they keep hurting me with shallow ways.so its me thats the bad in this story its him.who is so smog and arrorgant. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2008): its just isn,t fair .why is always when i like a guys he always likes some one and never asked me its not fair it reallly.guys are such cunts arreorangt cunts.they always make me like alien .its just unfair.i can,t describel how hurt i am .i truly am agnry and hurt all the same time
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2008): orginal post:
its very easy for him cute lookind and charming and forward.cheeky.its no wounder girls fancy him and want to be around him
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2008): Dear Poster
I am sorry for your pain and hurt; feeling rejected is not nice and it can be very humiliating. Don't feel alone, this happens to many of us in life; the most important is how you deal with it; don't let it get to you; don't allow the behavior of others to upset and hurt you; think about yourself; you are better off without the person; he could not value and treat you with respect, he is not worthy of your attention, not to mention your love or affection. You know, sometimes guys can be "jerks", but then we don't always understand them very well and they don't know us or understand us either; sometimes guys are very shallow and very egotistical; if he behaves like a "jerk" he might be one of those guys and then you are better off not wasting to much time dwelling on feeling bad or rejected by him. Continue with your sport and just be happy you are not the girl that is hanging around with such a "jerk"; pretend as if he and his girlfriend are just some strangers and don't let them affect or upset you; you will meet somebody that will love you and appreciate you for who you are; you deserve the best; not some "jerk". Make a list of the qualities you are looking for in a guy; when you have your list start looking for somebody that might match to your list, or at least somebody that can be a close match. Never settle for anything or anybody that you don't respect and that you are not compatible with.
Lift your head high, look them in the ye, smile and continue with your life as if they don't exist. Never wish bad to anybody, but rather just move forward and concentrate on a better future for yourself.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES to you; hope you feel better already!
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reader, silk2g2  +, writes (27 December 2008):
Wow just remember that people reap what they sow. The best revenge on a person who rejects you is to keep pushing forward. As far as leaving your sport please listen/read very carefully. This is what makes you happy and brings you joy, don't let some random guy take that away from you. Make some goals for yourself and follow them. Good luck.
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