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writes: I'm not rich, but if a guy were rich, what would be the best way for him to say that he's (seriously) rich on something like Tinder? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Katwri +, writes (20 February 2017):
If u did u would most likely just get gold diggers so whoever is rich and is on tinder should probably just post other things about then I would wait to tell them u r rich till the 2 nd or 3 rd date. ( unless u r famous then u r just screwed sorry lol)
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reader, chigirl +, writes (19 February 2017):
Why would he? Rich people do not brag about it, because they would just get chased by gold diggers. And if you really want to use your money to get a date, you don't use Tinder. You use sites like sugarbaby etc.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (19 February 2017):
He wouldn't need Tinder if he was rich.
He also shouldn't put it on his profile if it's fake because that's lying.
Nor should he put it on there if it's true because he would attract gold diggers or people could catfish him to get him to meet them, then mug him or force him to give them money.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (19 February 2017):
Rich guys don't need tinder ... if a rich guy wants to attract women he just goes to the places where women who want to attract rich guys hang out.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (19 February 2017):
Um, you (or the rich guy) should perhaps leave that out. UNLESS this "rich guy" wants people to come after him for his money.
And I don't think a "rich guy" would need to use a "hook-up" app like Tindr.
If he is just looking to hook up, money won't make much of a difference, if he is looking for a GF/relationship, I'd still keep quiet till the "rich guy" know the woman he is dating a LOt better.
WHY, OP would a guy want to announce that he is rich on a "hook-up" app? Because he can't otherwise get girls to swipe right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2017): you don't say anything of the kind. IF you are seriously rich.
And if you are a struggling student and you want to make out that you are seriously rich you do NOT do that either.
Do you genuinely want to establish a genuine connection and match up with a person or are you just hoping to cause some mischief by making out you are someone who you are not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2017): If a guy were seriously rich then he wouldn't need to be on Tinder; and should he join, he'd be a fool to flaunt his wealth at the risk becoming a target for gold-diggers, scammers, and armed criminals.
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reader, like I see it +, writes (19 February 2017):
Unless the person you're asking for is looking to attract women (or men) who might have passed over an identical profile that didn't reference money (i.e., gold diggers or women/men seeking "sugar daddy" types) I'd personally say leave it out entirely. Save that disclosure for an in-person conversation after a few dates - that way it's a pleasant surprise, not the sole basis for the other person's interest.
Hope this helps. Best wishes!
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