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How should I go about asking her out? And what are some good date ideas?

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Question - (3 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 August 2009)
A male Australia age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hey everyone,

Just after a bit of advice, as I wouldn't say i've had a whole heap of experience with dating. I met this girl a few months ago at my running club, we ran a few times together, and then she got sick, then went home for the holidays (she's from interstate).

Last week was the first time I had seen her since and we went on a few more runs together, which were really good. I mean she has got me to run further than I ever have before and we were talking the whole way. I even saw on her facebook from another friend 'how are the running dates going?', which was quickly deleted. I wasn't sure if she was interested in me, or just enjoyed having a running partner, but after this last week, I think maybe I should ask her out properly (I haven't even seen her, other than when we run). I know I will see her at running tomorrow night, and we will probably go for a run on thursday. So I was thinking of asking her then if she wanted to do something friday night.

My question is am I going the right way about it, how should I ask without sounding stupid, and what would be a good thing to do with her (other than running lol)?

Thanks in advance!

-M

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009):

Well i saw her at running tonight, she was still all bubbly to talk to me etc. Except when I asked her how her weekend was, she said she went on a date, which she said was good. :S I really know how to read people... I guess it would be a bit strange of me to ask her out now, wouldn't it?

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A female reader, advice needed United Kingdom +, writes (3 August 2009):

advice needed agony auntWell thats the most beautiful thing ever! You definetly should ask her out hun. Take her on a romantic night, Boat ride, Dinner. Avoid cinema because that can cause a lot of awkwardness. Just ask her if she would like to go out on friday and if she asks what. Say its a surprise and finish with telling her what time you'll pick her up. Work a charm aswell which is what girls love. And when out avoid wearing something to casual and something to smart.

hope it girls perfect!

mads xxxx

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