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writes:So I've been talking and spending some time with a guy I met but I don't know what he considers us or if we are just friends at the moment is it ok to ask him what he considers us and if so how should I ask? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2013): Have you held hands?
Have you kissed?
Have you made it to 2nd or 3rd base?
Have you had sex?
If you have done none of the above, then you are just friends. If you have done some of the above (or all of the above) you need to have an open an honest discussion with him.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (23 April 2013):
 Way to early, have patience.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (23 April 2013):
I don't understand why you need a label. If it's unclear that's probably because your relationship is unclear as well. If it was obvious you would know.
Have you kissed or had sex? Have you gone on dates with him (just the two of you)?
If, at this point, he's just been friendly and flirtatious then don't have "the talk" with him.
The bottom line is that it's probably too early to tell, so no need to force some label on you guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I've known him for over a month so would it still be weird to ask?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 April 2013):
 you can ask him how he feels about you and let him know how you feel.
it's a risk putting yourself out there but guys do it every day and fair is fair. if you like him let him know.
better to find out early on that he does not feel that way about you then drag it out and hope
and if he says he doesn't feel that way but let's see what happens.. DO NOT SLEEP WITH HIM.
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