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anonymous
writes: Hi i was wodering how long men norally last on there first time Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, CarrieMagdelene +, writes (17 January 2007):
Wow, lol, this brings back memories. For my guy, like five minutes. Seriously, he was so nervous that when he did get it up he lasted 3-5 minutes. Just relax, be cool, and don't worry about how long you'll last. If she loves you and cares for you enough to be with you like this, she'll understand that for two young people, it takes a few tries to get the hang of sex. And if it's any consolation, you'll probably last 45 minutes in a matter of weeks. :) Happened for us, so keep trying! ALWAYS HAVE SAFER SEX! -Carrie
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2007): 5 minutes... lol... most guys would be happy with 5 seconds their first time.
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male
reader, Badger_Simon +, writes (14 January 2007):
I know, being male myself, that with the first time, it can be very easy to get carried away and over excited, we have all been there. However one thing you have to realise is that sex shouldn't be timed, its not a competition with anyone. All you need to do is relax, make sure you enjoy it. Take it slower if you feel uncomfortable, or try pulling out and switching to foreplay to make it last longer. Ultimately just keep in mind that with experience you will become so much better at it.
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female
reader, sweetiegirl +, writes (14 January 2007):
it all depends on the guy, some last longer then others, don't worry if you only lasted five mintues then it's ok it's your first time, you'll get uset to it after awhile and you won't cumm as quickly. But it's normal for a first time to last only a short time, all the excitement can play a hugh factor. Just pace yourself and you'll be alright.
sweetie
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