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writes:How long do you chase a guy before giving up ? I been with dating this guy for 2 yrs and it seems like he doesn't love me the way I love him. Everytime we fight he's always ready to leave he gets angry at everything and disrespects me I don't know wat is holding me from leaving him what do I do ? Is there any hope in us ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI didn't lose my virginity to him , its just that when we started everything was so perfectt ! He's the 1st serious relationship I have but I don't know if he's the guy I want and I don't know how to move on :(
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reader, YouWish +, writes (23 October 2011):
 There's a saying...to "cut your losses".
Every single day you're with him is an investment of your time, energy, and youth. Each day is one you will never get back.
So are you going to give this guy one more second of your time? Nope. He is not worth the time investment.
I'd leave him, not waste another second, and find someone who DOES love you.
What's holding you is probably because you lost your virginity to him, and you have that whole goofy bonding thing that happens when you lose it with someone.
Recognize that it's making you feel like you can't quit him, and then quit him. Also, your ego is freaking out about the thought of a breakup. In that case, shrug it off and consider that an education in how you will never ever let another guy treat you like this again.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (23 October 2011):
 You need a new boyfriend, time to trade up.
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