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writes:I am a teacher in a primary school, and one of the single mothers has caught my attention for a long time, I do not teach her son and won’t be teaching him. She has a great personality what I like about her is that she talks to anyone and everyone; she’s confident and outgoing and well mannered. The issue is I am an introvert and shy but I like those things about her, I know she is single as I am I. What would be the best way to approach her and ask her out or get to know her better?
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reader, Atsweet1  +, writes (9 February 2013):
 Since your the shy guy you could send the message with telepathy. Meaning believe you and her are a item picture this often meditate on it. Be yourself around her be sure she knows your single also. Just start chatting talking making light conversations ask her to go,out to eat movies. You never know she probaly already was into you from day one. Also since Valentines is near get her something then it will be very obvious your into her. Im going to get my secrect crush something also that way he knows Im on the prowl again. Hes funny I look up to him and listen to what he saids. The things he saids come through my mind at the perfect time to motivate me.Im getting him something special for Valentines day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2013): Hi you should watch mr. D on Wednesday evenings at 8:00 on CBC. He is trying to ask out a students mother. This week he had the whole class write a report on their mothers, all about them and what they like (it's a comedy) then he told the class the winning report would get awarded a prize which would be given with the mother attending. Ha ha and of course the girls mom he liked won. But don't try this approach as of course the mom was no dummy and figured it out. What I would do is notice who she talks to regularly. If she is friendly like you say then maybe she chats regularly to a teacher. Let that teacher know you like her and next time you see her smile and maybe compliment her. Once she knows you are interested age will start to notice you more and you can start chatting then ask her out eventually. If its meant to be,it will happen. And who knows maybe she's already into you. Sometimes women are very loud and smiley around a guy they like to get his attention. And single ladies usually find out who the single teachers are. Let us know what happens!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2013): Get to know her better by being friendly, making conversation and building up flirty banter.Hope this helps.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (8 February 2013):
 HI
It's not often we get the chance to meet the right one for us in life, so stop dilly dallying about and ask her out already :)like aunt honesty said just start off by asking her out for a coffe, or maybe if you have a day out with the children ( school trip ) and you need parents help ask her if she would like to help out, it's a great way to get to know each other, when your both at ease .
Mandy x
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (8 February 2013):
Hi to the shy Teacher. Well you sound charming as they say nothing venture nothing win. After some small talk with this lady just ask if she was interest in films etc. and just ask her out no big deal. WISHING YOU THE BEST OF LUCK, NORA B.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (8 February 2013):
 Well its a good start that you won't be teaching her son, because this could be quite unprofessional. I can understand that you are shy and you look at this as a big task, but it does not need to be. The next time she talks to you, just make small talk, ask her how she is ect, and ask her would she like to grab a coffee sometime she is free. Yes it sounds scary but you will feel much better once you have asked her, and at least you know that no matter what happens you tried. Good luck.
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