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writes:how do you get over someone that you really loved with all your heart, after 18 months of being together. and when they tell you that they never loved you, how do you repair such a terrible hole in your heart ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): Sometimes people say they never loved you when at the time they really did.
Try to spend time with family and friends, doing enjoyable things and finding new interests to take your mind off the breakup. Naturally you are hurt, but time heals.
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reader, Madam Taylor  +, writes (12 June 2008):
Only time my dear but the best way is to start loving yourself, don't go look for someone to fill the gap, hang around people that make you feel great go experience real love with family and friends that is real
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): first of all the fool didnt deserve you. you need to go out with friends or family and have yourself a good time. take yourself shopping go out and meet new people get to know them maybe you might bump into somebody that finds you interesting and attractive and yall become true lovers and you will probably find yourself thanking the one who left you with a broken heart
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2008): Try 21 years then finding they had never loved you, you were second best and they had been carrying on a physical relationship with the one they loved, who had a family with somone else all the time you were together.
You get a little or a lot crazy, weep a lot, hurt a lot, but you you go on with life and after a while it doesn't hurt all the time. Then one day you are listening to music again, then one day you notice the sun is shining and the sky is blue. You will realize you like watching it rain. Food tastes good again. You shop for new clothes. Then one day you'll notice someone smiled at you. It will always hurt some when something remind you of him, you will be a little bit more reserved next time but you will be OK.
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reader, agentorange  +, writes (12 June 2008):
From my own experiences with relationships I have found that time is the only healer. Rebounds defiantly are not the way to go. Having sex with people will just leave you feeling empty. I still think about the man that broke by heart and I haven't even seen him in four years! He is now married and has a child with another woman. The pain though, is not nearly has bad. Time is all you need. Nothing else will help the pain go away. Just don't do anything stupid and remember that there IS a light at the end of the tunnel (even if you can't see it at this point).
HANG IN THERE!
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