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How do you know when a boy fancies you?

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Question - (16 November 2006) 26 Answers - (Newest, 25 September 2010)
A female , anonymous writes:

hi im 16 and im friends with this boy. I wanna know if he fancies me without asking him. But how do u know when a boy fancies u?

i mean he flirts wiv me, pokes me, pushes into me gently... but he doesnt seem to notice me in the corridors or he doesnt seem to look around for me in the corridors but i always look around for him to see where he is.

what do u think?

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A female reader, EllieBabyX United Kingdom +, writes (25 September 2010):

EllieBabyX agony auntHi, to be honest, i don't think he does, boys have a wierd way of showing if they like you. He probably see's you as a good mate, If you want him to fancy you, just flirt, the poking, and gentle pushing, is his way of playing a game with you, you obviously mean alot to him, but not in that way, sorry. xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2010):

well it is really hard to tell becaus ethey could be playing with your mind it has happened to me before but if he is acting weird around you then he probarly does or one of his mate do

if you really like him ask him out nothing bad can really come from it you never know

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A female reader, holivia United Kingdom +, writes (19 March 2010):

FACT if you look in to a boys eyes and there pupels get bigger they like you! if they stay the same or go smaller forget it! cheak every boy you know and see if you like someone that likes you!

have fun!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009):

this boy keeps staring at me and his friends keep saying he fancies me but he says he dosent and he is kinda fit

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A female reader, gogobells United Kingdom +, writes (20 April 2009):

maybe he will only do it when nobody is looking because in class there is too much going on for anyone to notice him doing it and when he is in the corridors he will not do it coz he is wid his mates i think you should send him a note or get ur friend or urself say do you like/fancie me. give it try at least you will know.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008):

well i met this boy in a BBQ party.and well i fancied.he was all cute and handsome.he smilied at me a couple of times.but ,i don't know if he fancies me + i don't know where to get started.it was the first times i met him. in the BBQ i was trying to talk to him but ,i am really shy+ his always with his gang.please HELP!!!!!!!!!!

wat shall i do?????????

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2008):

he might think that you fancy him, so hes trying to get it out of you by flirtin, happned to me lots of times

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A female reader, pinkmonkey19 United Kingdom +, writes (24 July 2008):

Well, it sounds like he fancies you. Get a friend who is really good friends with him to find out if he fancys you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008):

i think he's just tryin to see if you'll come after him.i mean i have boy problems too

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A female reader, Befff08 United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2008):

Its seems you definatly fancy him...He could fancy you by the way he is acting but it is also not good that he doesn't notice you in the corridors.

I think at the moment its to soon to know if he likes you!

Maybe you should just be yourself around him and BE confident...Guys like confident but not to much.

It came make you seem up yourself

Just see how it goes for a little longer.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008):

i am in the same position and i am sooo confused

i don't know what to dooo help!!! what did you do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008):

hi

i am having the same problem really so your not alone

i think he does sort of fancy you but i think he might be scared to ask you out. Incase you say no.

So really the best thing to do is ether give him time or just ask him when there is just you and him about.

I find that they are the best ways to find out how a boy is feeling about you.

Good Luck

PS

go for it

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008):

Look If He Does Not Look Around it means he wants you to be looking around for him dont do that let him do that play hard to get do an occasional flirting but not all the time so he will no just be yourself im sure he will like you for you not someone else !!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008):

i think he likes you as a friend, but nothing else. He seems to like you but he doesn't look desperate. Give it a bit of time and see what else he does. It actually seems as if u fancy him!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008):

i think that the boy secretly likes you but he dont want to admit it thats probebly why he dont come looking for you try to flirt eith him abit to see if he starts to flirt back and if he does he likes you !! x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008):

I like this boy at school he's a friend of the family.He stares,smiles,flirts and makes eye contact with me.He flirts with me infront of his m8's and says hi.Now i wanna know does he like coz sometimes i think he does sometimes i think he dosent.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008):

hey i know how you feel i have fancied this boy for years and we dont go to the same secondary school but when we go to his cousins area he is really kind to me and gives me hugs and that and he gives me a backy to the shop but when we are down by our house he acts the complete opposite way

i think he fancies me but gey i might be wrong

Amber

xoxoxox

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008):

Hi Im 15. And I Am Really Serious About This Boy. And Really Want To Start A Relationship With Him. But I Dont Know Wheaver He Like Me. He Always Chats To Me, And Always Wants ME To Go On A Walk And Chat To Him. But We Never Seem To Chat Being Together Or Anything. Ive Told Him I Like Him, And He Just Smiled. I Really Want To Go Out With Him. So Can You Help Me Get Him :D

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007):

hi

i can see your point.

i do think that there is a possibility that he might fancy you. As he could either be shy to look for you in case you catch him or maybe his friends might make fun of you.

but a good sign t see if a guy fancies you is physical contact so like the poking and the gentle pushing as this all signals that he wants to be close to you and possible touch you and be with you on a more intimate level.

hopes this helps.

but remeber each guy is dfferent.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007):

i think he does like you, because i've been in he exact same positoin as yuo, and i ended up c-in da boy!

boys are shy, and most of the time, probably find it easier to be toucky feely and express their feelings that way, rather than talking.

Try making conversation with him, about things that would interest him, lke sport teams he plays for or things lke that!

gd luk xxxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007):

hi im 15 i really like dis lad at school he used to look at me all the time and his m8 used to nudge him wen he saw me but he doesnt take one look at me anymore i jus wondered if he does like me . and their is another lad i am m8s with him he always nudges me all the time but never talks to me much.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2007):

I believe that he likes you but do not go to him let him come to you because he may just want to be your friend but you can never tell with boys boys are very mysterious they do not know how to express their feelings

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2007):

i think the boy does like you but he has given in to peer pressure which is when his friends think something different and he follows them. if you really lyk him i think you should just ask him 'Why do i never see you round corridors' 'say hi to him when you see him' also he could feel that you dnt like him so round his mates he pretends that he dont like you so he doesnt feel like a fool. i reckon u should come clean n tell him what u think

GD LUCK BBE

JODIE

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2006):

hi im 14 and there is a boy at school and he looks at me and he talks about me. hes tripped me up 2 times and i have talked to him on the phone for a long time. t really want to know if he fancys me

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A female reader, Meeh_06 +, writes (24 November 2006):

Meeh_06 agony auntYou have nothing to worry about. He is flirting with you. It takes boys a lot of time to get involved with someone, especially at school. His ego is probably huge in his mind and going out with you could lose him popularity or mates. Boys aren't really into the whole 'I love you' thing at their age. I would be surprised if any 16 year old boy waited for a girl at school!

Just keep talking to him and see how things go. Show him you fancy him, by giving subtle hints like touching his arm and telling him how great he is, he'll soon be head over heels!

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A female reader, bby_gal06 +, writes (16 November 2006):

bby_gal06 agony aunthiya

some guys just flirt for somthing to do and to impress there mates, but theres always little signs like flirting etc that could mean that he fancies you.

just because he dosent look for you in the corridors dosent mean he dosent like you it could just be he is shy and dosent want you to know that he likes you.

maybe ask for his mobile number and txt him becuase thats how most people can find out wether some one likes them becuase if they are shy they cant be seen it mostly works. x

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