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writes: How do you get over someone who wasn't treating you right? I just broke up with my boyfriend because he had been very mean with me in the last few weeks, and well overall he had been mean sometimes in the relationship. Like he cared more about other people. I love him to death, but I just had to end it because I can't take the humilliation anymore! So how do I deal with this? In my heart, all I want is for him to love me... and he was loving most of the time, but there were times when he just totally neglected me and even if it were just some times it deeply hurt and I know someone who truly loves me would never do what he did to me.He usually called me names if I did something that upset him, said I was nagging, smothering (I wasn't, he's the jealous one, really), he hung up the phone on me, ditche me for his friends a lot of the times, shut off his phone, gave me the silent treatment, etc...
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2008): I am going through exactly the same thing right now. I love my boyfriend (sorry Ex...)very very much, but over the last few months he has been so cruel - doing exactly the things that you describe i.e going out with his friends and ignoring me. I am angry with him becasue it is him that has thrown what we had away, and I dont want to be with someone so careless for the rest of my life. I hope that you are doing ok - I suppose what I am trying to say is, I think that everyday I hurt a little less and I hope that you will too. X
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2008): I am so proud of you; yes, you did the right thing for breaking up with this guy;
You are young but seem very wise; you have the right to be treated with respect; don't allow any guy to do any different;
Yes, I know you will be hurting; missing him; but vow; he is not worth the pain; get toghether with some friends; go out, keep yourself busy; try not to think about him to much;
You deserve somebody that will treat you with love and respect;
Ignore him and move on with your life!
Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2008): there is no easy way to get over anyone but from experience i feel your pain. getting over somone who treated you badly is so hard but believe me in time it happens. for some reson we justify their actions and learn to cope with all that they throw our way. i cant give u an exact remidey but ill tell u this, one day you will wake up and something in your head will click and you'll see him for what he was and realise how much better your life has become and could become without him. believe me it will happen.
Good luck x
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