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How do you get over a guy who uses you for sex only?

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Question - (18 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

how do you get over sleeping with a guy who fed you compliments and bullshit just to get you into bed, takes down your number then never calls? And how exactly do you act when you see him again? Im so humiliated I dont know what to do.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009):

If you happen to accidently run into him, you treat him as if he doesn't exist.

You don't acknowledge him in any way, shape or form. (Let alone say "hello" or "hi"). If he should speak to you, just give him a frosty stare or (sarcastically) an ice-cold "do I know you?" and then keep on walking! Either that, or say nothing, just as if you were stone deaf and hadn't heard a word he said.

This is no more than he deserves considering how he treated you... and, as the others said, chalk it up to a learning experience.

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A female reader, bekaaa United Kingdom +, writes (18 April 2009):

All you can do is learn from your mistake, most girls have been there before

you cant take what happened back, so forget about it, hold your head up high and if you do happen to bump into him again be confident, show your not bothered by what happened and be strong

Rats like him arnt worth the hassle, to avoid pricks like these, take more time in the relationships because if he respects you he wont want you in bed so fast

It is easy to fall for someone when they are paying you complimets like that, but anyone can say how beautiful you look etc

your worth more than him so forget about it but learn from it :)

good luck

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (18 April 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntI think a slap across the face would be justified, although if you don't like the idea of assault just ignore him and any bullshit he tries to come out with.

The only way to get over it, is to treat it as a learning experience.

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