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writes:My boyfriend's ex cheated on him 4 times during their 5 year relationship before she finally left him. She came up with stupid excuses like "oh but he raped me" and "he said he would kill you and your family if i didn't sleep with him." What the heck!? I have no problem with them still talking and being friends because I am NOT worried that he would ever go back to her. She is in another relationship, but for the past 7 months, has been calling my boyfriend and leaving "i'm sorry--i miss you" voice mails, sending him cards and emails, and keeps asking him to sleep with her! She claims she loves her current boyfriend but is "still in love" with my boyfriend. He has clearly told her to leave him and us alone, because she has no business coming back around asking for such. I'm not going to say anything to her unless she decides to call/email me. She didnt start this until my boyfriend and I got together, which was 7 months ago. How do you deal with a crazy psycho ex-girlfriend? Ignoring her has not helped unfortunately.
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reader, pixie13  +, writes (3 January 2012):
I just read I Hate His/Her Ex by Alex Cooper. You can get it on Amazon or other bookstores. It helped me to deal with so many issues that I had with my fiance’s ex - who I really hated!! Now, my relationship is perfect :) xxx
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reader, hayhay123 +, writes (14 July 2008):
I have dealt with this exact situation with two different guys I have dated. My advice to you is... don't let on that it worries you. That is really the best thing you can do. Don't say anything to the girl unless she contacts you first. If your boyfriend doesn't do something to get rid of her soon, or at least to get her to stop trying to contact him as often then maybe you need to have a serious sit down with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): You need to cut the contact with her. As in, block her emails. Block her phone number. He needs to take a stand. What else can you do?! Its not your ex-girlfriend its his. Shes jealous of him being happy with someone else and shes a bitch.
By the way, I really hate people like her so I wouldn't mind if you ran her over repeatedly or empaled her on a weather vane.
(Those remarks were for amusement purposes and were exaggerated)
In the mean time, you need to get your boyfriend to take the stand. You could tell her boyfriend, but that would be really bitchy, I couldn't see your boyfriend allowing it and she'd take serious revenge.
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reader, smile-babes-x3 +, writes (14 July 2008):
hey!as i say alot this type of thing isn't really my expertise lol. well i know that on house phones and mobiles you can block certain numbers, maybe that would stop the calling. and if she keeps emailing him then get him to get a new email address, because then the only way she will be able to contact him is to send him stuff in the mail. if she sends anything just simply discard it, and if it continues i think that by getting the police involved then can get a restraining order for her for harassment. or you could move house, but i think that maybe the last two are for emergencies basically. and I don't know if you can do this but i would look into to it if i were you, because i am sure you can change your postal code. to be honest she sounds like a right slag from what you have written, and should leave you and your boyfriend you live happily, and get on with her own life.hope this helps, go onto my column and message me back to tell me how it all works out xbest of luck,charlotte x (:
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