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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have been seeing my boyfriend for 18 months. We are both 'second time round', both with kids and live apart. We talk about growing old together and six months ago bought a holiday house that we often go to at weekends. We love each other and tell each other this all the time. Sex is great and in a lot of ways he is the perfect partner.However, there's niggling doubts. I haven't met his family - neither his kids or his parents/siblings. Although we jointly own a holiday property, he has shown no interest or desire to move in together. I'm unsure as to what to do next. At the same time I have been attracted to someone else. We kissed on a night out and I was incredibly tempted - he is not right for me at all but is clearly fulfilling a gap in my life right now.I tried to bring my issues up but my boyfriend gets incredibly defensive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010): i suspect your boyfriend isn't 'second time round' and is still living a married life with his wife. Ask him to be honest and give him a deadline for meeting his parents. forget the other man-he is an unhealthy distraction.you deserve much better than to be a weekend holiday home partner!
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