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*uperhoopschick
writes:I have been dating a guy for 4months. I now go to college an hour from him and he works. I drive down every weekend to see him. However I feel that he loses interest in me. How do I catch his attention? And Keep him interested in me?
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reader, LOVESICK4HYM +, writes (10 September 2008):
Just be yourself around him and tell him how you feel and pay aattention to what he says so you cancome to your own conclusion about what he thinks
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007): You can't control his feelings for you. It is either there or it is not. Relax and be yourself. If he loves you enough, he will remain interested. If he doesn't then it is better to know that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007): You cannot force it - he either wants to be in a relationship with you or he doesn't. I have been in a long distance (we're talking Australia and UK distance) with my boyfriend now for 4 months. It is so very hard emotionally as I have not seen him at all - not even Skyped - but we text frequently, I have sent cards and little presents, we have talked on the phone and emailed. If the love is there it will be ok - but both people should want it. The other big thing is trust. Sometimes distance will be the making or breaking of a relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007): I have the same problem with my boyfriend, do you find that it's difficult when you don't see each other but it's better again when you are together? I always feel like with him its "out of sight and out of mind" and he seems to lose interest and doesn't contact me as much. The way I've been dealing with it is by trying not to get too stressed out by it, because I think that would push him away, and then I just make sure that it's REALLY good when I do see him and try to remind him why he is with me. Sorry if this doesn't really help but I understand how you feel. xxx
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