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writes: hi, my question is, i love a girl very deeply who studey in my college. she is junior to me but we are in same age, but she is from another religion. earlier i was friend of her. later on our relationship got closer and i fell in love with her. earlier she had a n small affection with another boy because of his five years of following behind her. but later on she realized his bad habbits which she don like and they broke up. after i fell in love with her, one day i told my love to her. she was not neglating me, but i said we'l be friends because i dont know whether u like me or not. and i feel like i have done a bad thing to our friendship. after some days we were not communicating that much. but after some days we communicate very closely like lovers. i am quiet sure that she likes me and maybe she have little love on me. then we talked like lovers through phone calls. one day on a deep emotional phone conversation she told me to wait still she loves me. after one week she dold dont wait for me. she was scared of future becaus we follows different religion. at the same time now her parents are started seeking life partner for her. stil now i din't compal her to love me because i dont like it. now am in a confution whether to continue my love or to forget my love. but its very hard for me to forget it. please give me some words, regarding what to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2006): hi i am actually facing the same problem, we deeply love each other but i could never ask him to convert and i would never convert.
the thing is to ask someone to convert their religion is a very difficult thing b cos he will be deniying his identity his family baisically his life. both of you should try learning about each others religions a bit more and then with no pressuring if one of u finds faith in true religion then one might convert.
good luck and wish me luck too
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (29 June 2006):
 Religion and family are hard things to mess with. Your options are to start looking into her religion with an open mind and not dismiss converting. It would make a good impression on her parents.
If you get some alone time with her it wouldn't hurt to watch a movie based on a real life story about two people who are from different backgrounds that do make it, such as 'My Big Fat Greek Wedding'.
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