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*reddo2007
writes:me and my partner have agreed on ttc at the end of nxt year but after the abortion we had and i regret, i just want to start trying for a baby when we come back from england mid oct and that i dont want to wait for next year but i dont know how to tell him and i know he'll probly say no to it and say now isnt a good time but i know its worth a shot any advise on how to tell him my thoughts
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): By marrying him.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (5 June 2009):
Well if you want to convince him then go with the facts.
Does he have a good job? Do you?
Do you have qualifications that will allow you to go back to work after the child is born to help support it.
Do you have a nice place to live together and raise this child that you can afford on one income?
If everything is in place and you two know your relationship is really really strong and going to last for at least 20 years then just tell him that.
If you don't have something listed above or he is just not ready for the HUGE burden of responsibility that a child brings then you just have to accept it.
Good Luck!! xx
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