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writes:Well, I've been in love with my cousin for as long as i can remember. She's three years older than me so theres not much of an age gap. The thing is, we're both girls. I know she's a bisexual and I've been attracted to certain girls before. Just every so often I have crushes on girls but nothing too serious. More than anyone I've been attracted to her. I've always looked up to her and in recent years I've noticed its a lot more than that. I havent told her how i felt but i think she's gotten an idea. We've had conversations with a lot of sexual innuendo but nothing too flirty. We talk all the time and always wander off by ourselves at family events. I'm not ready to come out and tell her how I feel but what kind of hints can I do to eventually lead to that conversation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): well...all due respect but people in this planet dont go and mess with their cousins but i do understand your point of view especially you can't control who you like so on the part on liking you cousing i cant really help you on that one but on the relationship part you can either tell her that you like her which might ruin your relationship with her already so on my personal level i would advise you to just keep on the dl (down low) and just talk to her more and get to know her and when you feel the time is right which you will when the time is right then just tell her and see what happens ....hope that helps...sorry if i offend anyone in any way.
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reader, Lilhigh1 +, writes (1 April 2008):
Im in the same situation with my cousin but only im a boy she a girl anyways just when you are talking to her just start touching her and look at her face and if she dosent say anything then keep going but if she says what are you doing or looks at you wierd then just stop and say sorry and try to make her forget about it. hope it helps
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reader, Pinkbees09 +, writes (26 March 2008):
 I think you just love her in the family way, not a crush way. Or at least I hope not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): It's easy.
YOU DON'T!
She's you're freaking cousin.
What you are thinking of doing is illegal in 90% of the cultures on this planets. Certainly if she's a first cousin. The second cousins onward get a bit grey and sketchy and beyond that, 4th-5th-6th-etc, are free game cause you might as well not be related for all the blood you share.
How does this even happen in this day and age? Did this world suddenly run out of horny unrelated people to go playing around with?
Seriously. Take this shit to the grave and find someone else, anyone else.
Flynn 24
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