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writes:I met this guy like about 2 months ago and he seemed interested in me and I was too, but when he would tell me to let him know to hang out he always had things to do so I would get upset. I've asked him if he's single and he said he doesn't have a gf, but recently I found out he went out for drinks with this girl. When I asked him what was that about he told me he was single to not get mad. Now he has invited me over to his parents' home to hang out but I feel like he's dating that girl. I pray to god they're not dating because I can't stand another heartache. I don't know what to do because I don't want to lose him or my chance. So, should I talk to him and ask him what's up, or what can I do? Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 January 2016):
 He doesn't sound like he is to interested in getting serious with you. If you are looking for a relationship, look elsewhere.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (27 December 2015):
 He isn't serious about you. He is still looking for the "right" girl to date. So he is "seeing" or hanging out with her and suggesting you two can "hang out" too...
I think if you are looking for a BF... he isn't it.
And yes, since he IS still single he CAN go out for drinks with ALL the girls he wants, YOU on the other hand can decide if you want to be "on hold" till he decides to spend time with you, or IF you will settle to be ONE of many girls...
It's been 2 months and nothing serious has happened. So don't be too dramatic and think it's the end of the world if he doesn't want to DATE you seriously. Maybe look around and see what other options you have and let him fade into the past.
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